My girl is thiccc, i really do love her i know it sounds “wierd” to love a black widow spider but i do get a lot of enjoyment watching her and so does my kitty .
I know for some reason people have strong feelings about spiders but once you get to know them ( exposure helps ) you will come to love them as i do. They really aren’t as bad as people make them out to be.
Most spiders are super easy to care for give them a set up like have and she will often hang out in her favorite spot, throw in a couple crickets every week and give her a little mist, although like scorpions they get most of their moisture from their food.
Maybe ill make a covert here yes @lumpy i thought of you.